How would you respond?

KLARNOLD · Apr 27, 2009

I was looking for a card on ebay and could not find one so I started searching Google. I found the card I was looking for and emailed the owner of the card. Two days later I get an email back from his wife and she tells me that he died in November, 2007. She also goes on to tell me that she hasn't done anything with his collection and doesn't know what to do. Now I feel really bad. How would you respond/reply back to the widow?

abncollectsautos · Apr 27, 2009

wow, that would be a tough situation. good luck

pujolsthomefan33 · Apr 27, 2009

If I responded at all it would be merely be to tell her that I was sorry for her loss and if she ever needed help/or has questions with the collection, she can feel free to email you, call you, etc.

Just dont say what we all want to say.........sell me the collection...

TK

Resident Bay Fan · Apr 27, 2009

pujolsthomefan33 said:
If I responded at all it would be merely be to tell her that I was sorry for her loss and if she ever needed help/or has questions with the collection, she can feel free to email you, call you, etc.

Just dont say what we all want to say.........sell me the collection...

TK

+1

muskiesfan · Apr 27, 2009

I think TK is pretty much right on here. I would say that I am sorry for her loss and that if she needs help moving the collection to let you know. I'm really not sure that there is anything else to say. I would to see is she responded to that and go from there.

Joe

tonsofcommons · Apr 27, 2009

I'm glad that i'm not the only one that had that thought right off the bat.

I agree with everyone here. Just offer your assistance and expertise and leave it at that.

pujolsthomefan33 · Apr 27, 2009

Glad to see most people are agreeing....I have actually been in the same situation where I actually did the stupid thing and asked "How much would you sell it all to me for".......needless to say that did not go over to well....

::facepalm::

TK

trevordchi · Apr 27, 2009

pujolsthomefan33 said:
Glad to see most people are agreeing....I have actually been in the same situation where I actually did the stupid thing and asked "How much would you sell it all to me for".......needless to say that did not go over to well....

::facepalm::

TK

I'm not real sure why you guys think it is such a bad idea to offer to buy the collection. She hasn't done anything with it for 18 months so she probably has no idea what to do with it. If someone offered her half of what they would be worth if you sold them all individually she would probably consider it a huge favor. Everyone wins.

I hope if I die unexpectedly someone will buy my collection from my wife and not make her stress or work too hard to get it done.

pujolsthomefan33 · Apr 27, 2009

trevordchi said:
pujolsthomefan33 said:

Glad to see most people are agreeing....I have actually been in the same situation where I actually did the stupid thing and asked "How much would you sell it all to me for".......needless to say that did not go over to well....

::facepalm::

TK

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I'm not real sure why you guys think it is such a bad idea to offer to buy the collection. She hasn't done anything with it for 18 months so she probably has no idea what to do with it. If someone offered her half of what they would be worth if you sold them all individually she would probably consider it a huge favor. Everyone wins.

I hope if I die unexpectedly someone will buy my collection from my wife and not make her stress or work too hard to get it done.

There is nothing wrong to offer and help, but to just come out and ask to sell it to you...1) kind of seems like you dont really care that her husband died, you just want the collection and 2) you dont know if she is attached to them or wants to keep them.

Its better in my mind to offer and answer questions or help her find values etc. and let her if she decides to sell come to you....

TK

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