The whole point is a simple "no thanks on the trade" would have sufficed. Especially since I gave him that option on the third day. I wasn't even upset at that point, but seeing his constant posts, and even thread replies to me before getting any kind of PM for a week was garbage.
Also it's not petty if a deal is I. Place pending payment it is a contract that if broken deserves the consequence of a negative to his Itrader.
For what it may be worth, this entire thread is around a trade, not a sale. Still can be frustrating if one side does not complete a simple yes or no. I know with me, I tend to take a while to reply to PMs as my job is VERY busy and my home life comes first. Other people may have the same importance as well, and others may simply not want to respond due to how they are either being flooded with PM's or how the PM's/responses come across. Regardless of the reason, feedback is strictly for a transaction that has been created, not an "idea" of a transaction that has no confirmation from both sides. IMO...regardless of a trade or sale, I don't see anything not 100% complete unless either money has been transacted or cards/delivery confirmation has been sent from at least one side of said deal.
All of my 1 a day messages were polite and to the point, only showed signs of frustration via pm on day 5 or 6.
Just put it in the past and take it as a learning experience. I still think if you're active on the site every day for a week, you can send a 5 second PM.
I had a deal in place on this site, I was selling a card and was told by the potential buyer that he was going to buy the card. I said I would be taking it off ebay so I could sell it to him and he agreed. Well I never got the payment for the card, I sent a couple of PMs and never got a response. What really blows is I had already taken a card down from ebay that month so I was charged the fees for what the BIN was. Cost me $20 bucks. The guy that did it to me is a XXXXbag. I could have left a neg but I just let it go because of what was said above, he did not pay so it was not a deal.
Were the raw cards he was sending ever guaranteed to be a BGS 10?
Read the sections on when a neg is appropriate and when a deal is finalized op. then proceed to know that next time this happens the neg bomb gets dropped.
Last edited by Anthony K.; 08-14-2013 at 11:51 AM.
You don't even have a horse in this race, so why are you still crying about it? Seems like you just want to give someone a neg, badly. Good info to have.
Need Moustakas, Hosmer and patches.
I have no collecting focus, right now.
Also, it's interesting that I believe you were banned from Blowout for repeatedly bumping trade threads - which is against the policies you want to quote.