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I've been using my girlfriend's Paypal account because frankly, I despise Paypal and refuse to use them or give them any of my personal information ever again. **** those bastards

Two weeks ago I gave her $50 to deposit so I can transfer it to Paypal. Her balance was something like $5 at the time and she hadn't used her debit card for awhile. After I transfer the money in to Paypal, I buy and sell several things, always drawing the money from PP and never touching her bank account. Fast forward to last monday, I give her $155 to deposit so I can pay for the Teagarden Super. I assumed there was still $5 in the account, and I was using $153 of it so that wouldn't overdraft her account.

That's where the fun started. Apparently, in between my $50 and $155 deposits, a $21 charge hit her account, overdrawing it. Her balance when she deposited the $155 was -$16 and change, so her balance actually read $138. Of course, the ******* teller didn't let her know her acct was overdrawn when she deposited the money, so she still assumed she had $5 in there. After I paid for the Teagarden, it overdrafted her account AGAIN. When she went to deposit her paycheck Friday, her account balance read Available -$50 (includes the $35 overdraft fee), Total -$200.84. She had to deposit $201 just to be able to cash the rest of her check.

Of course, she called me bitching that it was my fault because I was using Paypal. No, it wasn't, as long as she didn't use her debit card without my knowledge. We went in there today (I had to go in there with her because I know everything about banking and she knows nothing) to figure out what the hell the deal was. Here's a bit of a timeline:

She had $5 in her account when I deposited and withdrew the $50, as I expected. What I didn't expect to see was an unknown $21 charge (the charge that overdrafted her account and started this mess). I asked her if she bought anything, which she hadn't. So I asked the bank manager dude what the charge was for. It took him a good 15 minutes to figure out the company that drew the $ from her account. They hid their identity well and it seems didn't want people finding out who they were. She always signs up for those "$1500 interest free loan!" spam emails. I tell her not to do it, she does it anyway thinking they'll actually give her cash. She's dumb like that. This was one of those companies who send endless junk email. I spent 45 minutes surfing their website trying to find some small print stating they have a legal right to draft money from your account for whatever BS service they're offering. I couldn't find anything. What they're doing is straight up theft. So that overdrew the account, causing me to overdraft the account again when I gave her the $155. That's why her balance was -$50. The guy working at the bank was nice enough to erase the charge and prevent the company from making any more charges to her account (He didn't take off the overdraft fee which was set off by the fraudulent charge, but whatever). We were about to walk out the door when I stopped and asked him why there was a $150 discrepancy between the available and total balances. He checked her account again and there was a $149.95 charge for some fraud garbage. We googled the company and it was a clear scam. They ask you to sign up for something, then steal $150 from you in exchange for a fake credit card with a $5k limit.

Really long story short, they sent the charge to their fraud department and the charge will probably get reversed in a few days. I hate banks, but I was really impressed with their (Capital One) willingness to work with us and get this fixed.

There are four things in this world that make me want to commit homicide: child molesters, murderers, liberals, and internet scammers. The BBB doesn't do **** about them, they don't care. The only people who seem to give a **** are consumer rights groups who keep tabs on these scammers and create websites to warn people. Neither of those fix the problem. The company that stole $150 from her is located in Uniontown, PA. Now, if I lived in Uniontown, I'd pay them a visit with a few of my friends. Namely Desert Eagle, Glock, and Bushmaster AR-15. I'd probably blow their business up. And I wouldn't feel guilt, because you reap what you sow. I'll also try to find out if they have a website tonight and see if I can hack it or **** with it somehow

How do we stop this from happening again? She doesn't even remember everything she signed up for. But if two companies have her account number, nothing will stop them from selling them to other scammers. This probably won't stop, even after her bank starts refusing them to take money from her account. Would closing her account and opening a new one help?
 

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once again someone proving how woman just arent cost effective.

seriously, crappy story, hope it works out, but jeez man, time to sit her down
and straighten her out before any more damage is done.
 

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You're a real piece of work man. Hope things get straightened out for your girlfriend's sake.

JoshHamilton said:
I've been using my girlfriend's Paypal account because frankly, I despise Paypal and refuse to use them or give them any of my personal information ever again. frack those bastards
 

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boomo said:
but jeez man, time to sit her down
and straighten her out before any more damage is done.

In her defense, she doesn't sit around on the computer posting on message boards that warn about the dangers of email scams. I didn't know anything about Paypal scams until I started posting on BMB - although, I wouldn't have fallen prey to them because I have common sense. But that's another discussion for another time.
 

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Close the account. Cut them off at the source. And you might want to breathe into a bag or something...

I know how frustrating this can be.
 

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rico08 said:
You're a real piece of work man. Hope things get straightened out for your girlfriend's sake.

And that is supposed to mean...what?
 

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Can't she sign up for bounce protection? Where if she doesn't have enough money in her checking account it will take it from her savings account.
 
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All that could have been avoided if you just had an account yourself. But there may be some underling issue
here as why you don't use your own account. :D
 

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JoshHamilton said:
Of course, the ******* teller didn't let her know her acct was overdrawn when she deposited the money, so she still assumed she had $5 in there.

If the bank is helping you with the situation, I think it is wrong that you are referring to the teller in this manner. Hopefully you didnt tell the manager that helped you about the "*******" teller? As a bank employee I actually take offense to this.
 

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All that could have been avoided if you just had an account yourself. But there may be some underling issue
here as why you don't use your own account. :D

Yes, there is.

A few years ago I had an account and sold $3k/month or more. Most of which was stuff on consignment I was getting 10% gross for. I had $800 in my account when I sold something to a guy on a Saturday night. On Monday, he filed an Item Not Received claim. No ****, Sherlock, the post office isn't open on Saturday night or Sunday, and they don't offer same day shipping. Paypal froze my account. Because it was frozen, I couldn't get the money out, meaning I couldn't pay my consignees, meaning they wouldn't give me the items to ship out. It was a double edged sword which screwed me. Couldn't deliver the items to my buyers until I paid my sellers, and couldn't pay my sellers until I delivered to my buyers. I was screwed either way, and never got the money back even after I threatened a lawsuit, filed a complaint with the BBB, etc. Paypal doesn't care, they didn't listen to my story, all they care about is their bottom line. It also ruined a side business of mine and back then I didn't have wads of cash laying around and it almost bankrupted me. I had to pawn most of my stuff to pay it back

So no, I don't have much interest in ever using Paypal again
 

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wait wait, its not ok for them bastards to have your info, but they can have your girlfriends?

You dont give them yours to protect you right, is she not good enough for such protection?
 

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jaymix79 said:
JoshHamilton said:
Of course, the ******* teller didn't let her know her acct was overdrawn when she deposited the money, so she still assumed she had $5 in there.

If the bank is helping you with the situation, I think it is wrong that you are referring to the teller in this manner. Hopefully you didnt tell the manager that helped you about the "*******" teller? As a bank employee I actually take offense to this.

I didn't call her a "*******" to the branch manager. The only thing I said is I wish she would have told my girlfriend that her account was overdrawn at the time she made the deposit

Since you're a bank employee, I'll ask. Are you supposed to let a patron know if their acct is overdrawn? I think I've overdrawn my acct five times in ten years, and every time the teller has alerted me.
 

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You said it yourself, "She's dumb like that."

Interesting though, someone who hates liberals is looking for a someone to step in and help someone who did something stupid...sounds like what you perceive most liberal agendas to be. Hmm.

Clearly when it's a toss up between credit score and IQ and we can't be certain which is higher there are far more serious problems that a baseball card message board can't resolve.
 

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Personally, I didn't have to learn not to give out my personal information online by way of a message board; it's really just common sense. I honestly do not see where Paypal did anything wrong in this situation as it was your girlfriend whom gave these scammer's the info they needed to do this, no? It's kinda crummy that this happenned but now that it has & she's learned the hard way I'm sure this won't happen again (just make sure that she changes all of her banking information, heck- I'd even close my account & open a new one just in case, & that she doesn't enter into anymore online or offline deals that sound too good to be true...because in this life there are many of those scams out there)! Also, let her know that if she does need to apply for a credit card that she should do a little research first (this whole situation could have been avoided had she did a little searching into the company she was handing over her personal info. to) :D
 

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200lbhockeyplayer said:
Interesting though, someone who hates liberals is looking for a someone to step in and help someone who did something stupid...sounds like what you perceive most liberal agendas to be. Hmm.

She didn't have a recent bank statement, and she doesn't use online banking, so I couldn't see her transaction record there. Otherwise I could have figured out what the problem is in two seconds.

The only reason I stepped in and helped her is because if she jacks up her account, my card buying goes bye-bye. Oh, and she is my girlfriend, so my usual mantra of "Make a mistake, suffer the consequences, and learn from it" isn't really applicable here. I'm 9 years older than her. When I was 19 I didn't know a damn thing about phishing and ID theft scams either.
 

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HoustonTeams4Me said:
I honestly do not see where Paypal did anything wrong in this situation as it was your girlfriend whom gave these scammer's the info they needed to do this, no?

Correct.

Paypal did nothing wrong, her bank did nothing wrong, she did.
 

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JoshHamilton said:
jaymix79 said:
JoshHamilton said:
Of course, the ******* teller didn't let her know her acct was overdrawn when she deposited the money, so she still assumed she had $5 in there.

If the bank is helping you with the situation, I think it is wrong that you are referring to the teller in this manner. Hopefully you didnt tell the manager that helped you about the "*******" teller? As a bank employee I actually take offense to this.

I didn't call her a "*******" to the branch manager. The only thing I said is I wish she would have told my girlfriend that her account was overdrawn at the time she made the deposit

Since you're a bank employee, I'll ask. Are you supposed to let a patron know if their acct is overdrawn? I think I've overdrawn my acct five times in ten years, and every time the teller has alerted me.


I am not an employee of the bank you are referring to so I cannot speak for them, but as far as alerting the customer if their account is overdrawn is on them. Some people do and some people dont. I would say most people dont because as a customer you would feel embrassed if there was other people in lobby that maybe heard the teller say "Hey did you know your account was overdrawn?"

There is two options that could help this:

1) You or her keep up with the account better so you all would know if the account was overdrawn (The bank cannot alert every customer with in their company that their account is overdrawn).

2) Ask for your balance each time you make a deposit so you will know how much is in your account. (sign up for online banking)
 

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jaymix79 said:
JoshHamilton said:
jaymix79 said:
JoshHamilton said:
Of course, the ******* teller didn't let her know her acct was overdrawn when she deposited the money, so she still assumed she had $5 in there.

If the bank is helping you with the situation, I think it is wrong that you are referring to the teller in this manner. Hopefully you didnt tell the manager that helped you about the "*******" teller? As a bank employee I actually take offense to this.

I didn't call her a "*******" to the branch manager. The only thing I said is I wish she would have told my girlfriend that her account was overdrawn at the time she made the deposit

Since you're a bank employee, I'll ask. Are you supposed to let a patron know if their acct is overdrawn? I think I've overdrawn my acct five times in ten years, and every time the teller has alerted me.


I am not an employee of the bank you are referring to so I cannot speak for them, but as far as alerting the customer if their account is overdrawn is on them. Some people do and some people dont. I would say most people dont because as a customer you would feel embrassed if there was other people in lobby that maybe heard the teller say "Hey did you know your account was overdrawn?"

There is two options that could help this:

1) You or her keep up with the account better so you all would know if the account was overdrawn (The bank cannot alert every customer with in their company that their account is overdrawn).

2) Ask for your balance each time you make a deposit so you will know how much is in your account. (sign up for online banking)

Thanks.

What bank do you work for, BTW?
 
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Pine Tar said:
All that could have been avoided if you just had an account yourself. But there may be some underling issue
here as why you don't use your own account. :D

Yes, there is.

A few years ago I had an account and sold $3k/month or more. Most of which was stuff on consignment I was getting 10% gross for. I had $800 in my account when I sold something to a guy on a Saturday night. On Monday, he filed an Item Not Received claim. No shat, Sherlock, the post office isn't open on Saturday night or Sunday, and they don't offer same day shipping. Paypal froze my account. Because it was frozen, I couldn't get the money out, meaning I couldn't pay my consignees, meaning they wouldn't give me the items to ship out. It was a double edged sword which screwed me. Couldn't deliver the items to my buyers until I paid my sellers, and couldn't pay my sellers until I delivered to my buyers. I was screwed either way, and never got the money back even after I threatened a lawsuit, filed a complaint with the BBB, etc. Paypal doesn't care, they didn't listen to my story, all they care about is their bottom line. It also ruined a side business of mine and back then I didn't have wads of cash laying around and it almost bankrupted me. I had to pawn most of my stuff to pay it back

So no, I don't have much interest in ever using PayPal again
Heckie no!!!! Hey it's Throwdown. So you don't want an account thru paypal, but your using someone else's PayPal
I recognized that story. account. :lol: :lol: :lol:
 

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