Going through the big D...selling out.

[Bob Loblaw]

I'm sorry for your issues. I won't post this in a PM as it may help someone else. Without getting into any specifics whatsoever, my wife and I had some major issues about 5 years ago. I'm not going to say that counseling is the answer, but communication IS the answer, and it is possible that counseling may help you to communicate your needs to each other better and help her find her happiness again with you. Have you investigated that option rather than just packing it in? Do you have kids? If you do, then you certainly owe it to them to at least try.

I wish you the best of luck.

 

[shuedini]

I'm sorry for your issues. I won't post this in a PM as it may help someone else. Without getting into any specifics whatsoever, my wife and I had some major issues about 5 years ago. I'm not going to say that counseling is the answer, but communication IS the answer, and it is possible that counseling may help you to communicate your needs to each other better and help her find her happiness again with you. Have you investigated that option rather than just packing it in? Do you have kids? If you do, then you certainly owe it to them to at least try.

I wish you the best of luck.

I know communication is the key. I've tried several times to communicate with her. The best way to describe the conversations is "one-sided." I do all the talking and question asking and she has the standard answers of "I don't know" or "I'm just not happy anymore." It's hard to continue the conversation after hearing those two "answers" several times. I've suggested counseling. Her response was "I don't know." How do you even try to reason with that?

We do have a son. He will be two in August. I've tried playing that card too. Telling her that we need to try to work on whatever it is that may be the issue...for his sake. She has already made up her mind though it seems.

 

[Pine Tar]

You know it is cheaper to shot her! Sorry to hear this man hope things work-out for you!