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tpeichel

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Oct 10, 2008
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AP Releases a statement:

http://blog.startribune.com/sports/access-vikings/vikings-rb-peterson-releases-a-statement

My attorney has asked me not to discuss the facts of my pending case. I hope you can respect that request and help me honor it. I very much want the public to hear from me but I understand that it is not appropriate to talk about the facts in detail at this time. Nevertheless, I want everyone to understand how sorry I feel about the hurt I have brought to my child.

I never wanted to be a distraction to the Vikings organization, the Minnesota community or to my teammates. I never imagined being in a position where the world is judging my parenting skills or calling me a child abuser because of the discipline I administered to my son.

I voluntarily appeared before the grand jury several weeks ago to answer any and all questions they had. Before my grand jury appearance, I was interviewed by two different police agencies without an attorney. In each of these interviews I have said the same thing, and that is that I never ever intended to harm my son. I will say the same thing once I have my day in court.

I have to live with the fact that when I disciplined my son the way I was disciplined as a child, I caused an injury that I never intended or thought would happen. I know that many people disagree with the way I disciplined my child. I also understand after meeting with a psychologist that there are other alternative ways of disciplining a child that may be more appropriate.

I have learned a lot and have had to reevaluate how I discipline my son going forward. But deep in my heart I have always believed I could have been one of those kids that was lost in the streets without the discipline instilled in me by my parents and other relatives. I have always believed that the way my parents disciplined me has a great deal to do with the success I have enjoyed as a man. I love my son and I will continue to become a better parent and learn from any mistakes I ever make.

I am not a perfect son. I am not a perfect husband. I am not a perfect parent, but I am, without a doubt, not a child abuser. I am someone that disciplined his child and did not intend to cause him any injury. No one can understand the hurt that I feel for my son and for the harm I caused him. My goal is always to teach my son right from wrong and that’s what I tried to do that day.

I accept the fact that people feel very strongly about this issue and what they think about my conduct. Regardless of what others think, however, I love my son very much and I will continue to try to become a better father and person.
 

Musial Collector

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Aug 7, 2008
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I'm torn. Did AP go too far? Obviously. It's not my personal parenting style, but there is certainly merit in corporal punishment applied correctly. The effectiveness is in the frequency and intensity. The child certainly needs to feel pain and associate the pain with their transgression. Drawing blood is undoubtedly going too far and several swats would seem to be sufficient to make your point, rather than the double digit swats that AP seemed to have employed. However, in a country of kids seriously lacking in discipline, do we really want to go after the parents that go overboard one time and use too much discipline? (I am assuming that this was the only time AP went this far with discipline until I hear differently.)

Perhaps some of these kids running around like a pack of wild animals would think twice about it if they had a Daddy at home waiting with a switch or belt?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDRimco4H4E

THE CHILD IS 4!!!!!!!
 

MansGame

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Sep 25, 2009
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Similar to the comment by [MENTION=2659]tpeichel[/MENTION], this is a pretty interesting topic in itself. I don't think anyone is arguing that AP went too far and what he did is wrong but where is the line drawn exactly? I am not going to sit here and act like I wasn't spanked or reprimanded in a way that might not be so wonderful in today's social media world. I mean what about the soap in the mouth when we were younger, is that going too far?! What about raising your voice... is that seen as mental or psychological abuse now of a child?! Not to derail the topic but one would ask where is the line drawn for how you can and cannot reprimand your own child. Again, I think what AP did was going too far and am not justifying what he did at all.
 

rsmath

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Nov 8, 2008
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at least AP is consistent.... consistent in discipling his kids!

And with this other kid making news today, I wonder if he's spread his seed as much as what you find in a corn field. ;) I also wonder how many he actually knows.
 

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